presenting is half (or completely) story telling, right? for the onboarding presentation in a few weeks, i'm focusing on strategies with gen y in mind. i have a few stories about situations i've encountered as an HR pro that are about classic gen y's... but i wanted to find a way to get personal. and i think i've nailed it. let me share and test it out with you... and here's the slide for the story:

pictured above, that would be me, circa 3rd grade. i was the featured solo act in this all-school, end of the year assembly. and that honor, well, it was a big deal. a BFD.
look in the background of the picture though and you'll see a girl whose head is cocked to the side. that would be Angela. and if you look closely, she actually looks pissed off, rightfully so because i was singing what was supposed to be her solo. (for what it's worth, it was Bette Midler's The Wind Beneath My Wings... nice, right?)
let me back track and explain. for this assembly, the choir director had us audition for the solo opportunity. one by one, we sang it out, just like on American Idol. Angela was a really good singer - probably the best singer in the choir. and me, i'm an okay singer. Angela was selected for the solo, which she earned, but i still went home crying about it because i had wanted that solo, and frankly, i thought i had sung my heart out at the audition.
before we move forward in the story, let me ask you this: if your child comes home in tears, how do you react? you probably want to kick the ass of whoever made your kid cry, right? so as you can guess, my mother was furious that i hadn't been selected and that i was so upset. after all, she thought i was a great singer with a lot of potential to make it big. like Britney Spears big. so she called the school and she proceeded to yell and scream that i deserved the solo. she ranted and raved that i was a far superior singer, better than any other kid, and that i deserved the solo act. eventually, after a series of phone calls with the choir director, my teacher, the vice principal and finally the principal... the gig was mine.
this is how i grew i up - with a helicopter parent. and this is how many other gen y or millenials grew up. if we wanted something, we would tell our parents and somehow, they would always find a way to make it happen. even if we didn't deserve it, even if we didn't earn it - what we wanted, was ours. end of story. we were handed things, we were told we were the greatest, and the best, and the brightest, and the most talented. (luckily, in my case, my mother was right. see how i turned out?) we were rewarded just for participating, just for showing up. and as you can imagine, as a result of growing up this way, my expectations are high. sky high. and now, years and years later, i'm in your workplace where you have to deal with me, and my expectations which remain high. and when i don't get what i want, i'm going to call my mother, who mother might call you and make you give it to me.
so how do you deal with someone like me, who grew up being handed things that i didn't necessarily earn or deserve but now has high expectations for what i should be given in the workplace? okay, so not every gen y or millennial is like this and i exaggerate a bit about what it was like growing up although this story is 100% true. however this theme of sky-high expectations is definitely real, and one of the most challenging aspects of gen y in the workplace.
i struggle writing or even presenting on generational differences - truthfully, i'm generationed out. i get sick of all the "experts" on the gen y/millennial set, and i think there is a lot of exaggeration about us... but, when i have managers who continue to struggle managing the expectations of their young staff, and some young staff who are frustrated because they aren't receiving what they need, it's hard to ignore the issue. stay tuned for the next piece of this story, the practical stuff, later this week or next. in the meantime, read this good piece in the economist about managing gen y in this downturn and a take on gen Y and generational differences by Gerry Crispin.